Dear Tabby is written by Tabs the Cat, commonly regarded as “the world’s first plus-size kitty supermodel.” Founded in mid 2012, it has quickly become the most widely syndicated cat advice column on earth — known for its fresh, feline perspective on lifestyle, fashion and style issues affecting cats and humans.
A plant sitter’s dilema
A feline friend of mine recently left on a month-long vacation and put me in charge of her favorite catnip plant. The other day, in a moment of weakness, I ate it…
The entire plant, leaving nothing but stems.
And my friend had left detailed instructions on the plant’s proper care. Nowhere on her list did it say, “Eat plant.”
What should I do?? Should I come clean and admit my crime, even though it’s too late to save the plant, or secretly have my assistant bring home a replacement from the gardening store?
— Not So Green Thumb
DEAR NOT SO GREEN THUMB:
Believe it or not, yours is a very common problem, and I’ve been on both sides of the situation.
On a vacation last year I left my cherished catnip plant, which I use strictly for medicinal purposes, under the care of the Russian Blue next door.
Upon my return, all I found was an empty pot lying on its side.
Robbers? I thought, but then the Russian Blue confessed. He admitted to eating it, which angered me at first, but then he offered to purchase me a new one.
I accepted his offer and appreciated his honestly. After all, we all make mistakes. I’ve certainly made a few of mine…
So, yes, I think you should come clean. Apologize, and offer to buy her a new plant. Maybe also include a few cans of gravy to make peace.
Truthfully, even if you tried to replace the plant without your friend knowing, chances are she’d figure it out. It’s not easy to find thriving, mature catnip plants at local gardening stores (trust me, I’ve looked).
New roommate rocks one cat’s world
My landlord/assistant (don’t ask) recently invited a new kitty roommate into our home, and let me be frank — I hate him.
He hogs the bed, the bathroom, steals my toys and even sleeps in MY stinky sock drawer. Oh, and he likes to nap in the same sunny patches that I like to nap in on the floor.
On top of all that…he’s always trying to be cute, so I feel like I have to be in “performance mode” all day long, constantly flashing my tum and looking adorable.
What should I do? I’m tempted to just run away, but I still have a pretty sweet thing going here. There’s a steady supply of gravy, daily walks, and my pet assistant is also a licensed massage therapist.
— Roommate Troubles in Rohnert Park
DEAR ROOMMATE TROUBLES:
You know the old saying, “Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer”? Truer words were never spoken. I believe every cat should have that phrase crossed-stitched on a pillow.
In your case, I think you should make the next move. Do something nice for the intruder, like offer to groom him or spoon the next time you’re both napping.
Build up some trust, because not only will it bring you peace of mind, it’s also a good way to carefully monitor the new cat’s activities.
And who knows? Maybe one day the two of you will become real friends.