Sundays With Tabs the Cat, Makeup and Beauty Blog Mascot, Vol. 310

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Sundays with Tabs the Cat: Makeup and Beauty Blog Mascot

Dear Tabby is written by Tabs the Cat, commonly regarded as “the world’s first plus-size kitty supermodel.” Founded in mid 2012, it has quickly become the most widely syndicated cat advice column on earth — known for its fresh, feline perspective on lifestyle, fashion and style issues affecting cats and humans.

A career cat dealing with retirement

Feline retirement


DEAR TABBY: I’m finding it difficult adjusting to retirement. In my professional life, I worked at Purina as a gravy tester. I gave that company the best 11 years of my life, and it was a great gig. I felt important. Felt like I mattered.

Now, I have nothing but time on my paws, but I have no idea what to do with myself. Maybe I had unrealistic expectations, but everything I try to do — napping, chasing moths, even playing with grocery bags and cardboard — seems frivolous by comparison to the vital work I did at Purina.

Honestly, retirement hasn’t been all it’s cracked up to be. Now I’m wondering if I should perhaps go back to work, or if I should try harder to enjoy my golden years. What do you think, Tabby?

Discontented in Denton

Kitty model retirement

Retirement isn’t for everyone.

DEAR DISCONTENTED: I think it boils down to this: some cats are built for retirement, and some cats aren’t.

It’s funny you bring up retirement because I’ve been thinking about it lately. I mean, I’m not quite there yet, but I can’t lie. It would be nice to have the extra time. I could finally finish exploring the hill outside, inventory my toy collection, maybe even build that better mousetrap.

But I know myself. A life of pure leisure wouldn’t be enough for me, and it sounds like you’re the same way.

After you’ve done important work in your life, it’s hard to go back to being a stay-at-home cat. I think a lot of professionals are faced with that.

The truth is, if you don’t want to retire, don’t. You’re a cat. Exercise your independence.

With your experience, you could be a mentor to younger cats, and I say this somewhat selfishly, but I think the world needs your refined gravy palette.

Ambitious cat with branding question

Ambitious cat

DEAR TABBY: I hope this doesn’t come across as bragging, but my star has begun to rise in the kitty modeling world. Unfortunately, I’m currently faced with a conundrum. I was recently asked to do an infomercial for Fur-Active (“Does your fur look patchy and dull? Try new Fur-Active!”).

The problem is, I’m not sure if I should do it. I’m worried that it could cheapen my brand. What do you think, Tabby? I ask because of your experience as a kitty supermodel, business mogul and branding expert.

Upwardly Mobile in Mobile

Kitty model branding advice

Take every job you can get your paws on.

DEAR UPWARDLY MOBILE: You want my advice?

Take the job.

Take every job. Never stop working. Build a reputation as a hard-working feline professional. That’s how you’ll define your brand.

When I first started kitty modeling, I took every job, no matter how small. The only jobs I refused were ones I had ethical problems with (The Anti-Dog Coalition: Cats Against Canine Camaraderie).

Later, once you’ve fur-mly [sic] established yourself as a force to be reckoned with in the kitty modeling industry, you can be more picky.

How to handle an uncooperative kitty

Uncooperative kitty

DEAR TABBY: My cat employer, Daisy, and I recently decided to go into business together fostering rescue kitties.

It was Daisy’s idea, which she sold me on by describing it as a bed and breakfast, but now that we have the rescues, Daisy hasn’t been helping.

I just want her to be more invested in the business. Daisy has a world of experience to offer these kitties, but she’s been so uninterested and aloof. What should I do, Tabby?

Problem Partnership in Pittsburgh

Occasional conflict is normal

Conflict will happen from time to time.

DEAR PROBLEM PARTNERSHIP: First, I applaud you for your efforts. Starting a small business, especially an inter-species partnership, is incredibly difficult.

As to your question, I’ve seen this sort of thing many times before. It happens a lot when professional pet assistants and their employers go into business together.

Daisy is probably feeling that her status as queen bee is being threatened, and she might be experiencing some jealousy. Among cats, it’s actually quite normal.

Reassure her. Let her know that your growing business won’t interfere with your primary responsibilities as her pet assistant. Make an evening of it one night, and talk it over (don’t forget to prepare a nice can of gravy).

Best of luck in your endeavors.

Single cat lady seeks dating advice

Cat lady dating challenges

DEAR TABBY: I’ve recently started dating again after a long-term relationship ended a year ago, so now I’m single and ready to mingle.

Thing is, I’m not exactly sure when it’s appropriate to bring up the fact that I assist for eight cats, which is perfectly acceptable in cat enthusiast circles, but some of the guys I’ve dated have felt otherwise. One even said that eight cats is seven too many. 🙁

How do I handle this situation?

Cat Lady Lookin’ for Love

Cat lady dating advice

Always be true to yourself.

DEAR CAT LADY: I’m all about being true to yourself. You should never have to hide your love for your kitties.

Perhaps be more upfront in your online dating profile. Include more pictures of yourself with your cats (but please get their permission first), and be patient. You’ll find the person who loves your cats just as much as he loves you.

Your friendly neighborhood beauty addicts,

Karen and Tabs

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  1. Kelsey says:

    This was my favorite edition of Sunday with Tabs! You’re a wonderful writer abs I hope you have a blast at the Emmys.

    • tabs says:

      Hi Kelsey,

      Glad you enjoyed. I don’t really think of this as writing though. More like public service. I just want to give a little something back to the cat and cat enthusiast communities.



  2. Musical says:

    Tabs!! You are so kind and helpful! Kitty kisses and purrs.

  3. sarahc says:

    Tabby you give such wise advice. Do you give private consulting sessions?

    • tabs says:

      Hi sarahc,

      I think we can arrange something. I’ll have my assistant get back to you with the details. In the meantime, stay fierce.



  4. katherine long says:

    love your blog……but love it even more because of the beautiful pictures of kitty

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